Get some relstionship help before it’s too late
On July 03, 2009 in Uncategorized
How to overcome the stalemate
Many couples in need of relationship help end up in the divorce courts, but this is not inevitable, and if they can get out of the war zone they may be able to see that there are things in the relationship worth fighting for (rather than fighting their partner).
How to get out of the battle, however, is not easy to work out. The problem is that each partner sees him or herself as the victim, and the other as the persecutor. So each partner sees their own behavior as ‘just acting in self-defense’, while the other partner interprets the same behavior as unprovoked aggression.
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